In an ideal world, a music festival would be a bit camp, a bit less hetero-male-student, it would close with a dance party, and the bill would feature Soft Cell, the Pet Shop Boys and the Magnetic Fields. Voila! Wotapalava - a Lollapalooza-style festival geared towards the gay community. On Friday afternoon, at about 1pm, I idly suggested to Jonathan that we go to the Boston leg of the festival on the 20th of July. By 4pm, we'd booked out tickets, arranged our flights, and spent a fortune. Is it too late to tell him I didn't really mean it??