As Marcus says, many of the men he fancies are black, yet he denies being a 'dinge queen'. Almost all his boyfriends have had something else in common, too, yet he denies being a size queen!

Aside: Menus in South African restaurants often print the letters 'SQ' next to prawns, oysters, langoustines and other shellfish. For years, I wondered what it stood for, till my chef boyfriend told me it stood for 'size queen'. "Lobsters are like cocks - no-one wants a small one. The gay boys are the worst - always going for the biggest one in the tank."