There's an awful lot of trauma out there at the moment. Tin Man's life over the last week or so has been several episodes of Sex And The City crammed into one. Dave has resigned and is about to go off and make a new life for himself on the other side of the world. Jonathan is going through hell with his poor cat.

An awful lot of big decisions to be made. Jeff, you definitely did the right thing. You too, Dave. And Jonathan, whatever you do, you'll fear you did the wrong thing - that's always the way with life's big choices. It takes a lot of strength to make the decision you have to make.